Have you ever been in a place for so long that it becomes normal, like changing anything in the room or even in your life, causes thoughts of trauma. But what if a change in perspective is necessary to be free. When I think about the concept of blame, I automatically think about the people... Continue Reading →


We speak so many words over ourselves, when we were children most of us spoke bold statements, things that were true. But unfortnately life is tough and sometimes our self- talk changes and it often shapes who we become and what we believe. We inflict wounds that sometimes never heal, because rather than expose what... Continue Reading →

This Little Light of Mine

Light. Dark. Good. Evil. People talk about the never ending cosmic battle going on between light and dark, a yin-yang swirl of fury, an otherworld dance of powers. It's not true. If science has taught us anything about light and dark, it is this one thing: Darkness in itself does not exist; there is only... Continue Reading →


Something that took me a long time to realise was that people need people. I always tried to do life on my own, pray on my own, be not really an integral part of my group of friends. I always stood on the outskirts. Mostly because I'd been hurt so many times before. I never... Continue Reading →

What makes us human?

It is perfection? Is it a life without flaws and failures? is it striving to live a life without mkstakes... What makes us human? This question was on my mind for two days last week, and I thought I'd do the best I can to share my thoughts.   We often feel more confident when... Continue Reading →

What’s left isn’t ugly

Human beings have scars, we carry them on the inside and the outside. It's so easy to talk about the scars that are so easy to spot, the one you got after crashing your bike, the one you got during your last pregnancy. The scar you see everytime you have a shower, when you tried... Continue Reading →

For So Long

We should keep on encouraging each other to be thoughtful and to do helpful things. Hebrews 10:24 CEV For so long I could'nt see the hope God placed in me, I was torn between my perspective and Gods. I thought I could never be loved and I would never be good enough, yet in Gods... Continue Reading →


I'm cursed. When I say 'cursed' I mean blessed. I'm gifted in "words of knowledge", it somehow runs in my family. My mum says it makes us like a spiritual vacuum, we suck up everyone else's junk. I say it's a hellish nightmare filled with anxiety and pain; at least, I did. Last Sunday we... Continue Reading →


Stories. Our community is built on stories. Our identity, it's built on stories. Some stories are funny, awe inspiring, easy to share. Others we try to hide, they're harder to tell, and we keep them bottled up. Sometimes the best stories ever told are about our worst moments, we always forget this. Sometimes what helps... Continue Reading →

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